Adding three months to a date in PHP
I assume by "didn't work" you mean that it's giving you a timestamp instead of the formatted date, because you were doing it correctly:
$effectiveDate = strtotime("+3 months", strtotime($effectiveDate)); // returns timestamp
echo date('Y-m-d',$effectiveDate); // formatted version
Change it to this will give you the expected format:
$effectiveDate = date('Y-m-d', strtotime("+3 months", strtotime($effectiveDate)));
This answer is not exactly to this question. But I will add this since this question still searchable for how to add/deduct period from date.
$date = new DateTime('now');
$date->modify('+3 month'); // or you can use '-90 day' for deduct
$date = $date->format('Y-m-d h:i:s');
echo $date;