Apache, use X-Forwarded-For for allow
Solution 1:
You can use SetEnvIf and Allow:
<Location "/only_proxy/">
SetEnvIf X-Forwarded-For ^10\.1\.1\. proxy_env
Order allow,deny
Satisfy Any
Allow from env=proxy_env
</Location>
Solution 2:
You can write a rewrite rule to redirect to 403 response.
RewriteEngine On
RewriteCond %{HTTP:X-Forwarded-For} !(1.1.1.1|2.2.2.2)
RewriteRule .* - [F]
Solution 3:
You can use mod_rpaf to make Apache treat the X-Forwarded-For IP as the client IP.