Bidirectional real-time sync of large file tree between two distant linux servers

Solution 1:

DRBD in Dual-primary mode with a Proxy is an option.

Solution 2:

Rather than syncing, why not share the same filesystem over NFS?

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Solution 3:

Implementing a distributed filesystem is probably better than hacking this together with tools and scripts, especially if the cluster of servers will grow. You'll also be able to handle a downed node better.

I don't think Gluster (or AFS) is overkill at all.

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Solution 4:

In your case I would recommend a combination of DRBD in dual-primary-mode and gfs or ocfs.

The drawback of DRBD in dual-primary is that it will be running in syncronous mode. But write-speed does not seem to be important here right?

An alternative to DRBD might be a Soft-Raid1 using many (2+) iSCSI-Targets - but I would prefer DRBD with two nodes.