Can't connect to Remote MySQL Server (10061)
To allow remote access to MySQL, you have to comment out bind-address (you did) and skip-networking in the configuration file.
Next, you have to make sure the user is allowed remote access. Check your user with this:
SELECT User, Host FROM mysql.user;
If your user here has '127.0.0.1' or 'localhost' listed as host, you don't have remote access.
Change this with:
UPDATE mysql.user SET HOST='%' WHERE User='__here_your_username';
Flush privileges:
FLUSH PRIVILEGES;
The '%' is a wildcard for 'all hosts'.
To Allow remote access to MySQL installed on a Ubuntu, you will have to access the file at this location:
/etc/mysql/mysql.conf.d/mysqld.cnf
There, you comment out the following line: bind-address = 127.0.0.1
basically to change: bind-address = 127.0.0.1 to: #bind-address = 127.0.0.1
Now you either restart the computer or just the mySQL service using the follwing command: sudo /etc/init.d/mysql restart
In my case, installed LAMP stack on Oracle VM of Ubuntu 18.04
Here's my updateto mysql config file: /etc/mysql/mysql.conf.d/mysqld.cnf
Before:
bind-address = 127.0.0.1
After:
# bind-address = 127.0.0.1
# comment out bind-address to test remote access
Ensure your user can access from remote host sudo mysql -u root -p Enter your password, then issue the command
mysql> SELECT user,authentication_string,plugin,host FROM mysql.user;
+------------------+-------------------------------------------+-----------------------+--------------+ | user | authentication_string | plugin | host | +------------------+-------------------------------------------+-----------------------+--------------+
| newuser | *9ACA980716AE084BCA56C59D19F3CEB7BB87B139 | mysql_native_password | 192.168.x.x | | newuser | *9ACA980716AE084BCA56C59D19F3CEB7BB87B139 | mysql_native_password | localhost |
This works for me, good luck.