Change CheckBox state without calling OnClick Event

You could surround the onClick event code with something like

if myFlag then
  begin
    ...event code...
  end;

If you don't want it to be executed, set myFlag to false and after the checkbox state's change set it back to true.

In newer Delphi versions you can use class helpers to add this functionality:

CheckBox.SetCheckedWithoutClick(False);

by using the following class helper for a VCL TCheckBox:

TCheckBoxHelper = class helper for TCheckBox
    procedure SetCheckedWithoutClick(AChecked: Boolean);
end;

procedure TCheckBoxHelper.SetCheckedWithoutClick(AChecked: Boolean);
begin
    ClicksDisabled := True;
    try
        Checked := AChecked;
    finally
        ClicksDisabled := False;
    end;
end;

Just for completeness: A FMX TCheckBox will behave similar (triggering OnChange). You can workaround this by using the following class helper:

TCheckBoxHelper = class helper for TCheckBox
    procedure SetCheckedWithoutClick(AChecked: Boolean);
end;

procedure TCheckBoxHelper.SetCheckedWithoutClick(AChecked: Boolean);
var
    BckEvent: TNotifyEvent;
begin
    BckEvent := OnChange;
    OnChange := nil;
    try
        IsChecked := AChecked;
    finally
        OnChange := BckEvent;
    end;
end;

Disclaimer: Thanks, dummzeuch for the original idea. Be aware of the usual hints regarding class helpers.