Cross Product Intuition
Just a remark concerning 'problem 2':
The coordinates of the cross product $\bf{a}\times\bf{b}$ are the determinants of the projections of $\bf{a}$ and $\bf{b}$ onto the coordinate planes. So the $x$-coordinate of $\bf{a}\times\bf{b}$ is the area of the parallelogram spanned by the projections of $\bf{a}$ and $\bf{b}$ onto the $yz$-plane. I hope this helps your intuition a bit.