Deploying django in a production server
A typical configuration involves two server processes (which can be run together on the same actual hardware or virtual server) so that the proxy server in front can buffer slow clients. For instance: a slow client will connect to nginx with a request. Nginx will pass the request on to Gunicorn and Gunicorn will respond. Nginx will then consume the Gunicorn response immediately, freeing up the Gunicorn resources right away. At that point, the slow client can take as much time as it wants to consume the response from Nginx without tying up much in the way of server resources. Alternatives to the two-server-process model are to use async workers with Gunicorn and put Gunicorn itself in front, or to use an async-sync combo like Waitress. Nginx in front has the added benefit of doubling as a ready-to-use statics server, though.
Note that "slow clients" can describe: mobile phones that lose their connection and leave the TCP socket hanging until timeout mid-request; mobile phones that are just slow; unreliable connections of all types; hostile denial-of-service clients who are deliberately trying to use server resources; sometimes any old connection that has a hiccup or malfunction for any reason. So this is a problem that will affect nearly any site.
You won't need shell scripting per se but getting used to Ubuntu will take some time. There is a lot to learn even outside of scripting, like how to use the package manager, how to configure packages once they're installed in ways that won't confound future updates, etc. And you will definitely have to learn to use SSH; it is one of the most fundamental server administration tools in the *nix world.
An alternative to learning to use Ubuntu or another server platform is to use a Platform-as-a-Service option like Heroku, as PaaS hosting providers really will take care of all of that stuff for you. I recommend this approach. That having been said, even though I think PaaS is a good option for people who want to focus on development and not server admin regardless of their level of skill, it's also true that a little bit of experience with Linux server platforms goes a long way in helping you to understand the environment that your code runs in. So even if you go with PaaS, you would still benefit from tinkering with Ubuntu a little (or a lot).
Another benefit from a PaaS is that normally their infrastructure handles the Nginx part of the deal (buffering of slow requests via proxy). This is the case with Heroku, for instance. So you won't have to worry about that part of the infrastructure at all.
This part of the question is too broad to answer, but let me know in the comments if you need clarification.
I'm doing it almoast like in this tutorial: http://michal.karzynski.pl/blog/2013/06/09/django-nginx-gunicorn-virtualenv-supervisor/
Nginx is my proxy to django app running on gunicorn and its serving statics, virtualenv for my python enviroment, supervisor to watch my app's running.
It's possible you will run in some error's if not using Postgresql, ask then I will help (used MySQL in the past now it's Postgresql)