Derivation of the formula for the vertex of a parabola
Already so many answers, but I haven't seen my favorite one posted, so here's another.
The vertex occurs on the vertical line of symmetry, which is not affected by shifting up or down. So subtract $c$ to obtain the parabola $y=ax^2+bx$ having the same axis of symmetry. Factoring $y=x(ax+b)$, we see that the $x$-intercepts of this parabola occur at $x=0$ and $x=-\frac{b}{a}$, and hence the axis of symmetry lies halfway between, at $x=-\frac{b}{2a}$.
By the vertex I assume you mean the minimum/maximum point of the parabola. Indeed, this result can be discovered easily through a bit of calculus, but there is also a simple purely algebraic way, which I will present here.
Let's consider a generic quadratic expression:
$y = ax^2 + bx + c$
We now complete the square on this formula.
$y = a[x^2 + bx/a + c/a]$
$y = a[(x + b/2a)^2 - (b/2a)^2 + c/a]$
The expression $- (b/2a)^2 + c/a$ is a constant (it does not depend on x), so we can replace it with k
for the matter of discussion.
$y = a[(x + b/2a)^2 + k]$
Now, depending on whether a is positive or negative, the parabola given by y will either have a maximum or minimum. Since a and k are fixed, this must occur when $(x + b/2a)^2$ is zero (we know it cannot be less than zero, and it can extend to infinity).
Hence, we know that for $(x + b/2a)^2$ to be zero, $x = -b/2a$. This in turn implies that the function y is at a minimum or a maximum when this is true. Q.E.D.
Parabolas of the form you described (y = ...) are symmetric over a vertical line through their vertex. Let's call that line x = k. This means that if the graph crosses the x-axis (meaning that $ax^2+bx+c=0$ has real solution(s)), they must be equidistant from x = k, so (k,0) must be the midpoint of the segment with endpoints at the zeros of the quadratic or k is the average of the zeros. From the quadratic formula, the two zeros of the quadratic are $\frac{-b\pm\sqrt{b^2-4ac}}{2a}$, so their sum is $-\frac{b}{a}$ and their average is $k=-\frac{b}{2a}$. So, the x-coordinate of the vertex must be $-\frac{b}{2a}$.
If the parabola does not cross the x-axis (no real solutions), there is another parabola with equation $y=ax^2+bx+c'$ for some $c'$ for which the graph is a vertical translation of the graph of the original quadratic, but crosses the x-axis. Its axis of symmetry is $x=-\frac{b}{2a}$ and because it is a vertical translation of the original, the axis of symmetry of the original is also $x=-\frac{b}{2a}$, so the vertices of both have x-coordinate $-\frac{b}{2a}$.