Distance/Similarity between two matrices
Some suggestions. Too long for a comment:
As I said, there are many ways to measure the "distance" between two matrices. If the matrices are $\mathbf{A} = (a_{ij})$ and $\mathbf{B} = (b_{ij})$, then some examples are: $$ d_1(\mathbf{A}, \mathbf{B}) = \sum_{i=1}^n \sum_{j=1}^n |a_{ij} - b_{ij}| $$ $$ d_2(\mathbf{A}, \mathbf{B}) = \sqrt{\sum_{i=1}^n \sum_{j=1}^n (a_{ij} - b_{ij})^2} $$ $$ d_\infty(\mathbf{A}, \mathbf{B}) = \max_{1 \le i \le n}\max_{1 \le j \le n} |a_{ij} - b_{ij}| $$ $$ d_m(\mathbf{A}, \mathbf{B}) = \max\{ \|(\mathbf{A} - \mathbf{B})\mathbf{x}\| : \mathbf{x} \in \mathbb{R}^n, \|\mathbf{x}\| = 1 \} $$ I'm sure there are many others. If you look up "matrix norms", you'll find lots of material. And if $\|\;\|$ is any matrix norm, then $\| \mathbf{A} - \mathbf{B}\|$ gives you a measure of the "distance" between two matrices $\mathbf{A}$ and $\mathbf{B}$.
Or, you could simply count the number of positions where $|a_{ij} - b_{ij}|$ is larger than some threshold number. This doesn't have all the nice properties of a distance derived from a norm, but it still might be suitable for your needs.
These distance measures all have somewhat different properties. For example, the third one shown above will tell you that two matrices are far apart even if all their entries are the same except for a large difference in one position.
If we have two matrices $A,B$. Distance between $A$ and $B$ can be calculated using Singular values or $2$ norms.
You may use Distance $= \vert(\text{fnorm}(A)-\text{fnorm}(B))\vert$ where fnorm = sq root of sum of squares of all singular values.