Find function $f(x)$ satisfying $\int_{0}^{\infty} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx=0$
I'll prove a partial result that hopefully someone can complete to showing that $f(x) \equiv 0$ is the unique continuous and $L^2(\mathbb{R}_{>0})$ solution. Beyond that, perhaps one can use that continuous functions are dense in $L^2$ to get the requested result. The main tool I want to contribute is the following lemma:
$\mathbf{Lemma}:$ Consider $f \in C(\mathbb{R}_{>0}) \cap L^2(\mathbb{R}_{>0})$. Then for any choice of $0<x_0<y_0 \leq \infty$, we have
$$f(x_0) = \lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0}\int_{x_0}^{y_0}\frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx $$
$\mathbf{Proof}:$ Fix $\epsilon>0$ and, by continuity, choose $\delta>0$ such that $|x-x_0| < \delta \implies|f(x)-f(x_0)| < \epsilon$. Note that
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_{x_0}^{x_0+\delta} \frac{1}{1+e^{nx}}dx = 1$$
and
\begin{align} \lim_{n \to \infty} \left | n e^{nx_0} \int_{x_0+\delta}^{y_0}\frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}} dx \right | & \leq \lim_{n \to \infty} n e^{nx_0} \int_{x_0+\delta}^{y_0} e^{-nx} |f(x)| dx \\ & \leq \lim_{n \to \infty} n e^{nx_0} e^{-(n-1)(x_0+\delta)} \int_{x_0+\delta}^{y_0} e^{-x} |f(x)| dx \\ & \leq \lim_{n \to \infty} n e^{x_0+\delta} e^{-n\delta} \|e^{-x}f(x)\|_1 \\ & \leq \lim_{n \to \infty} n e^{x_0+\delta} e^{-n\delta} \|e^{-x}\|_2 \cdot \|f\|_2 \\ & = 0 \end{align}
by Holder's inequality (neither of these depended on the choice of $\delta$-- they're just straightforward computation/comparison). Given these results, we see that
\begin{align} \lim_{n \to \infty} \left |ne^{nx_0} \int_{x_0}^{y_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx - f(x_0) \right | & = \lim_{n \to \infty} \left |ne^{nx_0} \int_{x_0}^{x_0+\delta} \frac{f(x)-f(x_0)}{1+e^{nx}}dx \right | \\ & \leq \lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_{x_0}^{x_0+\delta} \frac{|f(x)-f(x_0)|}{1+e^{nx}}dx \\ & \leq \epsilon \end{align}
Since $\epsilon>0$ was arbitrary, this proves the lemma. $$\tag*{$\blacksquare$}$$
This lemma gives us some insight into the behavior of functions satisfying your condition. In particular, if $f$ satisfies these hypotheses and the condition under consideration, we must have for any $x_0 > 0$ that
$$0 = \lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_{0}^\infty \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx = f(x_0) + \lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_{0}^{x_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx$$ Or
$$f(x_0) = -\lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_0^{x_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx $$
From this result, we have $\forall$ $0<x_0<y_0<\infty$ that
$$\lim_{n \to \infty} ne^{nx_0} \int_0^{y_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx = \lim_{n \to \infty} e^{-n(y_0-x_0)} \left [ ne^{ny_0} \int_0^{y_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx \right ] = 0 \cdot (-f(y_0)) = 0 $$
and similarly $\forall$ $0 < w_0 < x_0$ with $f(w_0) \neq 0$, the expression
$$ne^{nx_0} \int_0^{w_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx = e^{n(x_0-w_0)} \left [ ne^{nw_0} \int_0^{w_0} \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{nx}}dx \right ] $$ diverges to $-\text{sgn}(f(w_0)) \cdot \infty$ as $n \to \infty$, since the term in brackets approaches $-f(w_0)$.
Now, suppose $f$ is not identically $0$, so the set
$$\{t >0 | f \equiv 0 \text{ on } (0,t) \}$$
is bounded above; define $T_1$ as the supremum of this set if it is nonempty and $0$ if it is empty. Suppose $\exists T_2>T_1$ such that $$ T_1 < t < T_2 \implies f(t) \neq 0$$ Then $f$ is nonzero on $(T_1,T_2)$ by definition, so by the Intermediate Value Theorem $f$ cannot change sign in this interval. Thus either $f(x) \geq 0$ or $-f(x) \geq 0$ on $(0,T_2)$-- WLOG assume the former, so that for any $x_0 \in (T_1,T_2)$ the first identity after the lemma gives that $f(x_0) \leq 0$, showing $f(x_0)=0$, a contradiction. We therefore conclude that no such $T_2$ exists, i.e. $\forall t>T_1$ $\exists s \in (T_1,t)$ such that $f(s)=0$. That is to say, on any interval containing $0$ on which $f$ is not identically zero, $f$ must have infinitely many roots greater than $T_1$. In particular, the suggestion $f(x)=e^{-x^{1/4}} \sin(x^{1/4})$ cannot be a solution.
Note that if one can use the above results to show that $T_1 = 0$, it would establish that no continuous solution with compact support on $\mathbb{R}_{>0}$ exists (relevant because such functions are dense in $L^2(\mathbb{R}_{>0})$).
The only such function is $f\equiv 0$. The proof is fairly standard but if you've never seen such machinery before, it may take some time and effort to comprehend, so feel free to ask questions if something is unclear.
Lemma: If $f$ satisfies the condition, then $F(z)=\int_{0}^\infty \frac{f(x)}{1+e^{zx}}dx=0$ for all real $z>0$. Proof: $F$ is analytic in the right half-plane $\Re z>0$ and, moreover, grows at most polynomially in $\Re z>1$, say. Thus $z^{-N}F(z)$ is a bounded analytic function in $\Re z>1$. By hypothesis, $F$ has zeroes at all integer points, and $F$ must vanish identically (the Blaschke condition is violated). This proves the lemma.
By the lemma, if $f$ satisfies the condition, then $\int f(x)K_t(x)dx=0$ for all $t$, where $K_t(x)=\frac 1{1+e^{tx}}$. So the main result will follow from the density of the family $K_t$ in $L^2(0,+\infty)$. This the same as the density of the family $k_t$ in $L^2((0,+\infty),\frac{dx}{x})$ where $k_t(x)=\frac{\sqrt{tx}}{1+e^{tx}}$. Up to a logarithmic change of variable, this is also the same as the problem about completeness of shifts in $L^2(\mathbb R)$. The answer is given by the Wiener criterion: the family is dense if the Fourier transform of the generating function vanishes only on a set of measure $0$. So the family is dense if the transform $$ \int_0^\infty \frac{\sqrt x}{1+e^x}x^{-is}\,\frac{dx}x\ne 0 $$ for almost all $s\in\mathbb R$. But the left hand side is analytic in $s$ for $|\Im s|<\frac 12$, and not identically zero, so the real zeroes of the transform are at most a discrete set, and the transforms are non-zero for almost all $s$. QED
Edit: Assuming a non-zero $f(x)$ exists - if it is antisymmetric about $x=0$ and can be expressed by a Fourier integral $$f(x) = \int_{-\infty}^\infty F(\omega) \sin(\omega x) {\rm d}\omega ,$$ it can be shown that $$\lim_{n\rightarrow\infty}\int_0^\infty \frac{f(x)}{1+\exp(nx)}{\rm d}x = 0 :$$
for all spectral components of the assumed antisymmetric $f(x)$ proportional to $\sin(\omega x)$, the integral $$\int_0^\infty \frac{\sin(\omega x)}{1+\exp(nx)}{\rm d}x = \frac{n\sinh(\frac{\pi\omega}{n})-\pi\omega}{2n\omega\sinh(\frac{\pi\omega}{n})}$$ vanishes for $n\rightarrow\infty$ (and also for $\omega\rightarrow\infty$ since $n$ is non-zero).
And here the previous attempt at a numerical solution...
The approximate $f(x)$ in the plot below was constructed by numerically integrating $f(x)/(1+\exp(nx))$ and considering all $n$ up till including $30000$ and sampling $f(x)$ on a logarithmic-like grid with $15000$ points. $f(x)$ appears to consist of a superposition of functions of the form $\sin({\rm const} + \log({\rm const}_1+{\rm const}_2\cdot{}x))$, but it's hard to deduce a closed form...
The fact that this numerical solution stops oscillating at $x\sim10$ likely is an artifact of limited numerical precision; due to $(1+\exp(nx))^{-1}$ in the kernel, there is very little weight on $f(x)$ at larger $x$ and it is hard to obtain more precise values for $f(x)$.
For large $n$, which should have a dominating influence on $f(x)$ for $x\rightarrow 0$, the finite number of grid points limits the qualitity of the solution for $f(x)$. For sufficiently large $n$ and with a finite number of grid points, $f(x\rightarrow 0)\rightarrow 0$ will be sufficient to satisfy the numerical solution attempted here.
Here is the Python
code used to generate the figure above:
#number of grid points
N = 15000
#max n considered (can be/should be larger than N for least-squares
#solution below)
n = 2*N
#external dependencies
import numpy as np
from numpy.polynomial.legendre import leggauss
#create quadrature roots and weights
#beginning with interval [-1;1]
xp,wp = leggauss(N)
xp *= 0.5
xp += 0.5
#rescale to 0..infinity
scale = 6.0
x = np.sinh(scale*xp)
w = wp * scale/2. * np.cosh(scale*xp)
#create system of equations: Integral(n) = 0, n=0...
#we also constrain Int(0) = 0 (although only n=1... required) ...
#... seems to be more stable numerically (otherwise almost no weight on
#f-values at large x)
A = []
for i in range(n+1):
A.append(np.empty_like(x))
for j in range(len(x)):
if x[j]*i<500.:
A[-1][j] = w[j]/(1.+np.exp(x[j]*i))
else:
A[-1][j] = 0.0
#add additional for f at x approx 0.5 to avoid trivial solution f=0
#(hoping to not accidentally hit a root of f(x))
z = np.zeros_like(x)
z[np.argmin(np.abs(x-0.5))] = 1.
A.append(w)
A = np.array(A)
#RHS of system of equations
b = np.concatenate((np.zeros(n+1,np.float),[1.]))
#least-squares solution for f(x)
sol = np.linalg.lstsq(A,b,rcond=1e-14)[0]
#normalize
if -np.min(sol)>np.max(sol):
sol *= -1.0
sol /= np.max(sol)
#plot solution
import pylab
pylab.plot(x,sol)
pylab.xscale('log')
pylab.xlabel('$x$')
pylab.ylabel('$f(x)$')
pylab.show()