How can I see what I am about to push with git?

You probably want to run git difftool origin/master.... that should show the unified diff of what is on your current branch that is not on the origin/master branch yet and display it in the graphical diff tool of your choice. To be most up-to-date, run git fetch first.

For a list of files to be pushed, run:

git diff --stat --cached [remote/branch]

example:

git diff --stat --cached origin/master

For the code diff of the files to be pushed, run:

git diff [remote repo/branch]

To see full file paths of the files that will change, run:

git diff --numstat [remote repo/branch]

If you want to see these diffs in a GUI, you will need to configure git for that. See How do I view 'git diff' output with a visual diff program?.

There is always dry-run:

git push --dry-run

It will do everything except for the actually sending of the data.

If you want a more graphical view you have a bunch of options.

Tig and the gitk script that come with git both display the current branch of your local copy and the branch of the remote or origin.

So any commits you make that are after the origin are the commits that will be pushed.

Open gitk from shell while in the branch you want to push by typing gitk&, then to see the difference between what is on the remote and what you are about to push to the remote, select your local unpushed commit and right-click on the remote and choose "Diff this -> selected":

To simply list the commits waiting to be pushed: (this is the one you will remember)

git cherry -v

Show the commit subjects next to the SHA1s.