How do I stop httpd running under Mac OS X (10.11) El Capitan Server?
You can stop that with command:
sudo apachectl stop
The apple proxy service is the service that grabs ports 80 and 443, so you need to stop that one.
sudo launchctl unload -w /Applications/Server.app/Contents/ServerRoot/System/Library/LaunchDaemons/com.apple.serviceproxy.plist
This command should kill them all:
sudo killall httpd
They will start again on next boot.