How to compress a symbolic link?
Take care of placing the "h" option in the correct place. In your example:
tar -cjvf archive.tar.bz2 mainwebsite_html
should be
tar -chjvf archive.tar.bz2 mainwebsite_html
From the tar(1)
man page:
-h, --dereference follow symlinks; archive and dump the files they point to