How to get the Model id in custom Request class
use route() method on request to retrive the route parameter
dd($this->route('param_name'));
if your route is like /users/{user_id}
then $this->route('user_id');
will give you the parameter user_id value in request if you have bind custom parameter name in route model binding use that parametername in route() method
for ex. Route::model('user', App\User::class);
then use $this->route('user');
to retrive the user model directly.
PS. $this means you should be in your Request class where you define rules() and messages() method.