how to make a jquery "$.post" request synchronous

From the Jquery docs: you specify the async option to be false to get a synchronous Ajax request. Then your callback can set some data before your mother function proceeds.

Here's what your code would look like if changed as suggested:

beforecreate: function(node,targetNode,type,to) {
    jQuery.ajax({
         url:    url,
         success: function(result) {
                      if(result.isOk == false)
                          alert(result.message);
                  },
         async:   false
    });          
}

this is because $.ajax is the only request type that you can set the asynchronousity for

jQuery < 1.8

May I suggest that you use $.ajax() instead of $.post() as it's much more customizable.

If you are calling $.post(), e.g., like this:

$.post( url, data, success, dataType );

You could turn it into its $.ajax() equivalent:

$.ajax({
  type: 'POST',
  url: url,
  data: data,
  success: success,
  dataType: dataType,
  async:false
});

Please note the async:false at the end of the $.ajax() parameter object.

Here you have a full detail of the $.ajax() parameters: jQuery.ajax() – jQuery API Documentation.

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jQuery >=1.8 "async:false" deprecation notice

jQuery >=1.8 won't block the UI during the http request, so we have to use a workaround to stop user interaction as long as the request is processed. For example:

• use a plugin e.g. BlockUI;
• manually add an overlay before calling $.ajax(), and then remove it when the AJAX .done() callback is called.

Please have a look at this answer for an example.

If you want an synchronous request set the async property to false for the request. Check out the jQuery AJAX Doc