How to use shell magic to create a recursive etags using GNU etags?

The Emacs Wiki is often a good source for answers to common problems or best practices. For your specific problem there is a solution for both Windows and Unixen:

http://www.emacswiki.org/emacs/RecursiveTags#toc2

Basically you run a command to find all .cpp and all .h files (change file selectors if you use different file endings, such as e.g., .C) and pipe the result into etags. Since Windows does not seem to have xargs, you need a more recent version of etags that can read from stdin (note the dash at the end of the line which symbolizes stdin). Of course, if you use a recent version of etags, you can use the dash parameter instead of xargs there, too.

Windows:

cd c:\source-root
dir /b /s *.cpp *.h *.hpp | etags --your_options -

Unix:

cd /path/to/source-root
find . -name "*.cpp" -print -or -name "*.h" -print | xargs etags --append

This command creates etags file with default name "TAGS" for .c, .cpp, .Cpp, .hpp, .Hpp .h files recursively

find . -regex ".*\.[cChH]\(pp\)?" -print | etags -