In iOS, how can I store a secret "key" that will allow me to communicate with my server?
Crazy as it sounds, this is probably the best solution. Everything else is more complicated, but not much more secure. Any fancy obfuscation techniques you use are just going to be reverse engineered almost as quickly as they'll find this key. But this static key solution, while wildly insecure, is nearly as secure than the other solutions while imposing nearly no extra complexity. I love it.
It will be broken almost immediately, but so will all the other solutions. So keep it simple.
The one thing that you really want to do here is use HTTPS and pin your certificates. And I'd pick a long, random key that isn't a word. Ideally, it should be a completely random string of bytes, stored as raw values (not characters) so that it doesn't stand out so obviously in your binary. If you want to get crazy, apply a SHA256 to it before sending it (so the actual key never shows up in your binary). Again, this is trivial to break, but it's easy, and won't waste a lot of time developing.
It is unlikely that any effort longer than an hour will be worth the trouble to implement this feature. If you want lots more on the topic, see Secure https encryption for iPhone app to webpage and its links.
By hardcoding the string in your app, it's possible for attackers to decrypt your binary (via tools like dumpdecrypt) and get your string without much trouble (a simple hexdump would include any strings in your app).
There are a few workarounds for this. You could implement an endpoint on your REST API which returns your credentials, that you could then call on launch. Of course, this has its own non-trivial security concerns, and requires an extra HTTP call. I usually wouldn't do it this way.
Another option is to obfuscate the secret key somehow. By doing that, attackers won't be able to instantly recognize your key after decryption. cocoapods-keys is one option which uses this method.
There's no perfect solution here – the best you can do is make it as difficult as possible for an attacker to get a hold of your keys.
(Also, be sure to use HTTPS when sending requests, otherwise that's another good way to compromise your keys.)
While in-band tokens are commonly used for some schemes, you're probably eventually going to implement TLS to protect the network traffic and the tokens. This as Rob Napier mentions in another reply.
Using your own certificate chain here allows the use of existing TLS security and authentication mechanisms and the iOS keychain, and also gives you the option of revoking TLS credentials if (when?) that becomes necessary, and also allows the client to pin its connections to your servers and detect server spoofing if that becomes necessary.
Your own certificate authority and your own certificate chain is free, and your own certificates are — once you get the root certificate loaded into the client — are just as secure as commercially-purchased certificates.
In short, this certificate-based approach combines encryption and authentication, using the existing TLS mechanisms.