Explaining why cross multiplication works using a pie
Imagine 9 cakes with 6 pieces each. Both taking 3 of 9 cakes, or 2 pieces of each of the 9 cakes result in 18 pieces of cake.
Suppose you cut the pie into $6 \cdot 9 = 54$ slices, and call each of those a "unit slice". Then both $2 \cdot 9=3 \cdot 6$ would denote the same amount of "unit slices", which is $\dfrac{18}{54}=\dfrac{1}{3}$ of the full pie.
Without the pie analogy, just note that $\,\dfrac{2}{6} \color{blue}{\cdot \dfrac{9}{9}}=\dfrac{18}{54}=\dfrac{3}{9} \color{blue}{\cdot \dfrac{6}{6}}\,$.
Imagine 2 cakes with 18 strawberries on top.
- Take the first cake, cut it into 6, and take 2 slices. (2/6) Each slice has 3 stawberries
- Take the second cake, cut it into 9 and take 3 slices. (3/9) Each slice has 2 strawberries.
Now, you have 9 slices with 2 strawberries each (9∗2), and 6 slices with 3 strawberries each (6∗3), for a total of 18 strawberries per cake