FindRoot evaluates the exact same point multiple times. Why?

I speculate that the following is occurring. As I noted in a comment above, the actual values of x returned by EvaluationMonitor are

Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[{x}]]]]
NumberForm[%, 25]
(* {{{5.}, {5.}, {5.000000074505806}, {2.}, {2.}, {2.0000000298023224}}} *)

To use the "Newton" method, FindRoot must evaluate both the dxnoy[x] and its derivative at each point. Since FindRoot cannot see inside dxnoy[x], it must evaluate the derivative numerically. This would seem to account for the second evaluation at x == 5., followed by the evaluation at x ==5.000000074505806. It then does the same at x == 2. Convergence is rapid, because dxnoy[x] is quadratic. Evaluation of the derivative numerically at x == 2. can be avoided by

Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[{x}], 
    Method -> {"Newton", "UpdateJacobian" -> 2}]]]
NumberForm[%, 25]
(* {{{5.}, {5.}, {5.000000074505806}, {2.}}} *)

The second evaluation at x == 5. still seems unnecessary.

As explained here, the Newton's Method, which is used by default when you have only one starting point, computes Jacobian at every step, which is the most time consuming part. You can tell Mathematica to freeze the Jacobian for few steps, thus improving its performance.

RepeatedTiming[Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x]]]]]
(* {0.0012, {{5., 5., 5., 2., 2., 2.}}} *)

RepeatedTiming[Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x], Method -> {"Newton", "UpdateJacobian" -> 2}]]]]
(* {0.00084, {{5., 5., 5., 2.}}} *)

This, however, works not really efficient when your guess is close to the actual minimum point.

RepeatedTiming[Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 2.1}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x]]]]]
(* {0.0014, {{2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2., 2., 2., 2.}}} *)

RepeatedTiming[Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 2.1}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x], Method -> {"Newton", "UpdateJacobian" -> 2}]]]]
(* {0.0012, {{2.1, 2.1, 2.1, 2., 2., 2.}}} *)

As an alternative, you can force FindRoot to use the Secant method instead (which is the default for two starting points). However, the evaluation will fail, as FindRoot can't work with an identity equation, which is what dy[x, y] == 0 becomes when x is evaluated at 0 (which is what Secant method will try to do). In order to fix it, we need to modify the fy:

xi=0.1;
fy[x_?NumericQ] := If[dya[x, _] =!= 0, y /. FindRoot[dya[x, y] == 0, {y, 20}], y /. FindRoot[dya[x + xi, y] == 0, {y, 20}]]

RepeatedTiming[Last[Reap[FindRoot[{dxnoya[x] == 0}, {{x, 2.1}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x], Method -> {"Secant"}]]]]
(* {0.00087, {{2.1, 0., 2.1, 2.}}} *) 

You might need to try several methods depending on your function and the initial guess.

In this sort of problem in which $y=h(x)$ is defined implicitly by $g(x,y)=0$, we can compute its derivative $h'(x)$ in terms of $g(x,h(x))$:

fy /: fy' = (fy'[#] /. First@Solve[D[dy[#, fy[#]] == 0, #], fy'[#]] //
      Evaluate) &;

Here $h$ is fy and $g$ is dy. Now FindRoot can calculate the derivative (Jacobian) of dxnoy.

ClearAll[f, fy, dx, dy, dxnoy];
f[x_, y_] := (x - 2)^2 + x (y - 2)^2;
dx[x_, y_] := Block[{xs}, D[f[xs, y], xs] /. xs -> x];
dy[x_, y_] := Block[{ys}, D[f[x, ys], ys] /. ys -> y];
mem : fy[x_?NumericQ] := mem = y /. FindRoot[dy[x, y] == 0, {y, 20}];
fy /: fy' = (fy'[#] /. First@Solve[D[dy[#, fy[#]] == 0, #], fy'[#]] //
      Evaluate) &;
dxnoy[x_] := dx[x, fy[x]];

Last[Reap[
  FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x]]]]
(*  {{5., 2.}}  *)

You may notice I memoized (cached) values of fy. That's because dxnoy'[x] evaluates fy[x].

(*
  dxnoy'[x]
  2 + (2 (2 - fy[x]) (-2 + fy[x]))/x  
*)

So what you gain in fewer functions evaluations of dxnoy[x] by FindRoot, you would lose in the evaluate of dxnoy'[x] if the values of fy[x] were not saved. Since fy[x] calls FindRoot, it is a comparatively expensive function to evaluate and probably worth memoizing. Local memoization may be obtained with Internal`InheritedBlock:

Internal`InheritedBlock[{fy},
 Last[Reap[
   FindRoot[{dxnoy[x] == 0}, {{x, 5}}, EvaluationMonitor :> Sow[x]]]]
 ]

The saved definitions will be deleted and the memory freed once excution leaves the InheritedBlock.