Frame Buster Buster ... buster code needed
I'm not sure if this is viable or not - but if you can't break the frame, why not just display a warning. For example, If your page isn't the "top page" create a setInterval method that tries to break the frame. If after 3 or 4 tries your page still isn't the top page - create a div element that covers the whole page (modal box) with a message and a link like...
You are viewing this page in a unauthorized frame window - (Blah blah... potential security issue)
click this link to fix this problem
Not the best, but I don't see any way they could script their way out of that.
FWIW, most current browsers support the X-Frame-Options: deny directive, which works even when script is disabled.
IE8:
http://blogs.msdn.com/ie/archive/2009/01/27/ie8-security-part-vii-clickjacking-defenses.aspx
Firefox (3.6.9)
https://bugzilla.mozilla.org/show_bug.cgi?id=475530
https://developer.mozilla.org/en/The_X-FRAME-OPTIONS_response_header
Chrome/Webkit
http://blog.chromium.org/2010/01/security-in-depth-new-security-features.html
http://trac.webkit.org/changeset/42333