How do I delete from multiple tables using INNER JOIN in SQL server
You can take advantage of the "deleted" pseudo table in this example. Something like:
begin transaction;
declare @deletedIds table ( id int );
delete from t1
output deleted.id into @deletedIds
from table1 as t1
inner join table2 as t2
on t2.id = t1.id
inner join table3 as t3
on t3.id = t2.id;
delete from t2
from table2 as t2
inner join @deletedIds as d
on d.id = t2.id;
delete from t3
from table3 as t3 ...
commit transaction;
Obviously you can do an 'output deleted.' on the second delete as well, if you needed something to join on for the third table.
As a side note, you can also do inserted.* on an insert statement, and both inserted.* and deleted.* on an update statement.
EDIT: Also, have you considered adding a trigger on table1 to delete from table2 + 3? You'll be inside of an implicit transaction, and will also have the "inserted." and "deleted." pseudo-tables available.
You can always set up cascading deletes on the relationships of the tables.
You can encapsulate the multiple deletes in one stored procedure.
You can use a transaction to ensure one unit of work.