Apple - How do I permanently disable Notification Center in Mavericks?
If you start Terminal, enter
sudo defaults write /System/Library/LaunchAgents/com.apple.notificationcenterui KeepAlive -bool False
and restart, this did the trick for me in Mavericks.
Just unloading the plist still works for me:
launchctl unload -w /System/Library/LaunchAgents/com.apple.notificationcenterui.plist
If the plist is not loaded, sudo defaults write /System/Library/LaunchAgents/com.apple.notificationcenterui KeepAlive -bool False
should have no effect.