How do i tell if all traffic is going though the vpn?
Solution 1:
If you're on windows then start a dos window and run the tracert command.
e.g. tracert www.google.com
You can also use an IP address instead of a DNS name.
If you're on Linux you can do the same with the traceroute command.
With both utilities you should hopefully get a trace of the route that packets take to reach the destination. You'll be able to tell if it's passing through your VPN gateway.
Solution 2:
On OS X, I use this, and it shows the interface as either en0 or utun0:
ex:
$ route -n get website.thatshouldroute.com