How to extract POINT from a [LINE|MULTILINE]STRING
To get point in order and link to orginal geometry use
SELECT (ST_DumpPoints(the_geom)).path as path, id, (ST_DumpPoints(the_geom)).geom FROM linestrings)
and remove duplicates from http://wiki.postgresql.org/wiki/Deleting_duplicates
Remember that you need to have one unique id for duplicate removing. If you don't have one you need to create it.
As far as the first question is concerned, there is a PostGIS function just for that, ST_DumpPoints.
The first example in the docs page is exactly what you need. It's a set-returning function, so it doesn't just dump the points, but also some info (the path array) that relates them to the original geometry. Since you only care about the points, you could try something like this:
SELECT (dp).geom FROM (
SELECT ST_DumpPoints(geom) AS dp
FROM linestrings
)
ad 1.
CREATE TABLE points AS
SELECT ST_PointFromWKB(ST_AsEWKB(linestring_geom)) AS point_geom FROM linestring_table;
ad 2. Select Duplicate Points PostGIS
CREATE TEMPORARY TABLE temp AS
SELECT *
FROM points AS a, points AS b
WHERE ST_Equals(a.geom, b.geom) AND a.id <> b.id;
DROP FROM points USING temp WHERE points.id=temp.id;