Is it possible to define macros in bib-files?
There's a sort of special entry @preamble
which can contain LaTeX code. It's used to define commands or other formatting required for your bibliography.
Something like:
@preamble{"\def\R{\/\textsuperscript{\textregistered}}"}
This should work with BibLaTeX / Biber as well.
You can safely say title={Cool\R Book}
in your entry and define
\newcommand{\R}{\textsuperscript{\textregistered}\xspace}
in your normal LaTeX preamble.
(Of course, then the BibTeX file requires that command to be defined in every document that uses it.)