Multiplication by One
Usually, if there is an operation called multiplication, it is defined as having an identity element. We call that element $1$. When we do that, we define $1\times x = x \times 1 = x$. Sometimes we only define one of the equalities because we have the power to derive the other one. If we don't have a $1$, we don't have a multiplicative identity.
As Ross Millikan has pointed out, mathematicians like to call multiplicative identities $1$ because we like things to behave familiarly.
There are exceptions to this though, especially when we're working with sets of numbers that are endowed with structures other than the ones we usually use. The easiest example that comes to mind is the set $S=\{0,2,4,6,8\}$ with addition and multiplication defined modulo $10$ (in other words, if I multiply or add numbers and they exceed $10$, then I take the remainder dividing by $10$. So $6+8\equiv 4$ modulo $10$ since $14=10+4$, while $4\cdot 8\equiv 2$ modulo $10$ since $4\cdot 8=32=3\cdot 10+2.$) If you sit down and multiply each element of $S$ by $6$, you will find that $6$ is the multiplicative identity, not $1$ (which isn't even in the set).
This is kind of cheating though because in some sense $S$ with this structure is "the same" as $\{0,1,2,3,4\}$ with addition and multiplication defined modulo $5$, and in this case $1$ is is the multiplicative identity.
I don't think there's really any context where we want to relax the axiom $1a = a$. But sometimes, we want to relax the axiom $0a=0$. I've seen the terminology almost-semiring used to describe algebraic structures where addition and multiplication behaves as expected, except that $0a = 0$ might not be true. Almost-semirings arise naturally: for example, suppose $X$ is a set, $S$ is a semiring, and consider the collection of all partial functions $X \rightarrow S$. This is an almost-semiring, but if $X$ is non-empty, it won't satisfy $0a=0$. To see this, let $a$ denote any non-total function $X \rightarrow S$. The big difference between $1a=a$ and $0a=0$ is that $a$ occurs exactly once on each side of $1a=a$ (it's a "balanced" identity), whereas this isn't true of $0a=0$. This means that the identity $1a=a$ can be expressed using operads, whereas $0a=0$ cannot. The end result is that while most ways of building constructions will preserve the identity $1a=a$, many will not preserve $0a=0$. For another, similar example, try doing algebra in the powerset of a semiring. You'll quickly notice that $1A=A$ holds, but that $0A=0$ doesn't.