Pass the value of one control to a Converter to set the width on another control

you're supposed to use the other control as the source, not the parameter. The parameter has to be a constant and in your case can be -5.

I'm not near VS at the moment so the syntax maybe inaccurate, however, it is something like:

Width="{Binding ElementName=LayoutRoot, Path=ActualWidth,
Converter={StaticResource PositionConverter}, ConverterParameter=-5}"

(The converter will receive -5 as a string and will have to convert it into a number before using it.)

From my experience it is better to use the OnXXXChanged callback of DependecyProperty XXX, and not bind controls within the same window/root control one to another. One of the reasons for this is that you may want to bind them to an external element later on.

Or alternatively, use multibinding:

<TextBlock>
    <TextBlock.Width>
        <MultiBinding Converter="{StaticResource yourConverter}">
            <MultiBinding.Bindings>
                <Binding /> <!-- Bind to parameter 1 here -->
                <Binding /> <!-- Bind to parameter 2 here -->
          </MultiBinding.Bindings>
        </MultiBinding>
    </TextBlock.Width>
</TextBlock>

and and a converter which converts the two parameters to the value you want.

Although I suspect there may be a better way to solve your problem, I think I have an answer for what you want to do. ( You didn't mention what type your container is. A StackPanel for instance takes care of the width calculation for you. See TextBox#2 below)

First the XAML

<Window x:Class="WpfApplication1.Window2" ...
    xmlns:local="clr-namespace:WpfApplication1"
    Title="Window2" Height="300" Width="300">
    <Window.Resources>
        <local:WidthSansMarginConverter x:Key="widthConverter" />
    </Window.Resources>
    <Grid>
        <StackPanel x:Name="stack">
            <TextBlock x:Name="txtStatusMessages" 
                    Width="{Binding ElementName=stack,Path=ActualWidth, 
                        Converter={StaticResource widthConverter}}"
                    TextWrapping="WrapWithOverflow" 
                    Background="Aquamarine" 
                    Margin="5,5,5,5">
                This is a message
            </TextBlock>
            <TextBlock x:Name="txtWhatsWrongWithThis" 
                    TextWrapping="WrapWithOverflow" 
                    Background="Aquamarine" 
                    Margin="5,5,5,5">
                This is another message
            </TextBlock>
        </StackPanel>
    </Grid>
</Window>

Next the Converter. We have a problem here.. since the ConverterParameter for the Convert methods cannot be a dynamic value for some reason. So we sneak in the Textbox Margin via a public property of the Converter that we set in Window's ctor. WidthSansMarginConverter.cs

public class WidthSansMarginConverter : IValueConverter
    {
        private Thickness m_Margin = new Thickness(0.0);

        public Thickness Margin
        {
            get { return m_Margin; }
            set { m_Margin = value; }
        }
        #region IValueConverter Members

        public object Convert(object value, Type targetType, object parameter, System.Globalization.CultureInfo culture)
        {
            if (targetType != typeof(double)) { return null; }

            double dParentWidth = Double.Parse(value.ToString());
            double dAdjustedWidth = dParentWidth-m_Margin.Left-m_Margin.Right;
            return (dAdjustedWidth < 0 ? 0 : dAdjustedWidth);
        }

        public object ConvertBack(object value, Type targetType, object parameter, System.Globalization.CultureInfo culture)
        {
            throw new NotImplementedException();
        }

        #endregion
    }

Window2.xaml.cs

        public Window2()
        {
            InitializeComponent();

            WidthSansMarginConverter obConverter = this.FindResource("widthConverter") as WidthSansMarginConverter;
            obConverter.Margin = txtStatusMessages.Margin;
        }

HTH. Thanks for the exercise :)

yes..multi binding works for me.. actually i tried to send a element as a convereterparameter, but its not accepting. thats why i passed the element as a value to the converter class.

below is my example..

<ListView ... >
<ListView.View>
<GridView>
    <GridViewColumn Header="xyz" >

        <GridViewColumn.Width>
            <MultiBinding Converter="{StaticResource GetWidthfromParentControl}">
                <MultiBinding.Bindings>
                    <Binding ElementName="lstNetwork" Path="ActualWidth"/>
                    <Binding ElementName="MyGridView"/>
                </MultiBinding.Bindings>
            </MultiBinding>
        </GridViewColumn.Width>
    ....
    </GridViewColumn>
    <GridViewColumn ...>
    ....
    </GridViewColumn>
</GridView>
</ListView.View>
</ListView>

In window resize, my first gridviewcolumn has to be resized, not the other two gridviewcolumns.. i passed Actualwidth of listview and also total gridview object as an element.. if you go the converter code...

class GetWidthfromParentControl : IMultiValueConverter
{
    #region IMultiValueConverter Members

    public object Convert(object[] values, Type targetType, object parameter, System.Globalization.CultureInfo culture)
    {
        GridView view = values[1] as GridView;
        GridViewColumnCollection collc = view.Columns;
        double actualWidths = collc[1].ActualWidth + collc[2].ActualWidth;
        return ((double)values[0] - actualWidths );
    }

    public object[] ConvertBack(object value, Type[] targetTypes, object parameter, System.Globalization.CultureInfo culture)
    {
        return null;
    }

    #endregion
}

this worked for me... :)