What's your next move?

Perl, 101 98 bytes

Includes +4 for -0p

Run with the input on STDIN

tictactoe.pl
OXO
---
--X
^D

Output is the same diagram, but with each move updated with its status, 1 represents a win, 2 represents a draw and 3 represents a loss. For this case that would be

OXO
223
21X

so 3 moves draw, 1 wins and 1 loses (I'll update the solution if this output format is unacceptable, but the basic code will remain the same)

tictactoe.pl:

#!/usr/bin/perl -0p
m%@{[map"O.{$_}"x"@-"."O|",1-/.(
)(.)/,@-]}Z%sx||s%-%$_="$`X$'";y/XO/OX/;do$0%eg?/1/?3:1+/2/:2

This is already painfully slow and uses lots of memory for the empty 3*3 board (why actually, the recursion doesn't go that deep. Must be some memory leak). Adding memoizing costs 6 bytes but is a lot saner:

#!/usr/bin/perl -0p
$$_||=m%@{[map"O.{$_}"x"@-"."O|",1-/.(\n)(.)/,@-]}Z%sx||s%-%$_="$`X$'";y/XO/OX/;do$0%eg?/1/?3:1+/2/:2

Javascript (ES6), 320 294 bytes

(b,p,d,M,S=-2)=>(T=(p,q,r,s)=>b[p][q]==(n=b[r][s|0])&&n!='-',w=0,b.map((r,y)=>(l=r.length-1,m=15,r.map((c,x)=>(m&=8*T(l-x,x,l)+4*T(x,x,0)+2*T(x,y,0,y)+T(y,x,y))),w|=m)),w?-1:(b.map((r,y)=>r.map((c,x)=>S<1&&c=='-'&&(r[x]='O.X'[p+1],(s=-f(b,-p,1))>S&&(S=s,M=[x,y]),r[x]=c))),S=S+2?S:0,d?S:[M,S]))

Input

1) An array of array of characters describing the current board, such as:

[['X', '-'], ['-', 'O']]

2) An integer describing the current turn: 1 = X, -1 = O

Output

An array made of:

• an array describing the best move in [x, y] format
• the outcome of the game as an integer: 1 = win, -1 = loss, 0 = tie

Example

In the following example, X is guaranteed to win by playing [1, 2].

let f =
(b,p,d,M,S=-2)=>(T=(p,q,r,s)=>b[p][q]==(n=b[r][s|0])&&n!='-',w=0,b.map((r,y)=>(l=r.length-1,m=15,r.map((c,x)=>(m&=8*T(l-x,x,l)+4*T(x,x,0)+2*T(x,y,0,y)+T(y,x,y))),w|=m)),w?-1:(b.map((r,y)=>r.map((c,x)=>S<1&&c=='-'&&(r[x]='O.X'[p+1],(s=-f(b,-p,1))>S&&(S=s,M=[x,y]),r[x]=c))),S=S+2?S:0,d?S:[M,S]))

console.log(JSON.stringify(f(
  [['O','X','O'],
   ['-','-','-'],
   ['-','-','X']],
  1
)));

_{A STRANGE GAME. THE ONLY WINNING MOVE IS NOT PLAY.
HOW ABOUT A NICE GAME OF CHESS?}