Which ORM should I use for Node.js and MySQL?
I would choose Sequelize because of it's excellent documentation. It's just a honest opinion (I never really used MySQL with Node that much).
May I suggest Node ORM?
https://github.com/dresende/node-orm2
There's documentation on the Readme, supports MySQL, PostgreSQL and SQLite.
MongoDB is available since version 2.1.x (released in July 2013)
UPDATE: This package is no longer maintained, per the project's README. It instead recommends bookshelf and sequelize