jframe title bar background color code example
Example: how to change top of window in java
UIDefaults uiDefaults = UIManager.getDefaults();
uiDefaults.put("activeCaption", new javax.swing.plaf.ColorUIResource(Color.gray));
uiDefaults.put("activeCaptionText", new javax.swing.plaf.ColorUIResource(Color.white));
JFrame.setDefaultLookAndFeelDecorated(true);