disselect and select based on value in jquery code example
Example 1: jquery select option by value
$('.id_100 option[value=val2]').attr('selected','selected');
Example 2: jquery select option by value
$('.selDiv option[value="SEL1"]')
$('.id_100 option[value=val2]').attr('selected','selected');
$('.selDiv option[value="SEL1"]')