Jelly Bean DatePickerDialog --- is there a way to cancel?

I'm gonna add my own riff on the solution David Cesarino posted, in case you're not using Fragments, and want an easy way to fix it in all versions (2.1 thru 4.1):

public class FixedDatePickerDialog extends DatePickerDialog {
  //I use a Calendar object to initialize it, but you can revert to Y,M,D easily
  public FixedDatePickerDialog(Calendar dateToShow, Context context, OnDateSetListener callBack) {
    super(context, null, dateToShow.get(YEAR), dateToShow.get(MONTH), dateToShow.get(DAY_OF_MONTH));
    initializePicker(callBack);
  }

  public FixedDatePickerDialog(Calendar dateToShow, Context context, int theme,
    OnDateSetListener callBack) {
    super(context, theme, null, dateToShow.get(YEAR), dateToShow.get(MONTH), dateToShow.get(DAY_OF_MONTH));
    initializePicker(callBack);
  }

  private void initializePicker(final OnDateSetListener callback) {
    try {
      //If you're only using Honeycomb+ then you can just call getDatePicker() instead of using reflection
      Field pickerField = DatePickerDialog.class.getDeclaredField("mDatePicker");
      pickerField.setAccessible(true);
      final DatePicker picker = (DatePicker) pickerField.get(this);
      this.setCancelable(true);
      this.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_NEGATIVE, getContext().getText(android.R.string.cancel), (OnClickListener) null);
      this.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_POSITIVE, getContext().getText(android.R.string.ok),
          new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
              @Override
              public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                picker.clearFocus(); //Focus must be cleared so the value change listener is called
                callback.onDateSet(picker, picker.getYear(), picker.getMonth(), picker.getDayOfMonth());
              }
          });
    } catch (Exception e) { /* Reflection probably failed*/ }
  }
}

Until the bug will be fixed I suggest not to use DatePickerDialog or TimePickerDialog. Use custom made AlertDialog with TimePicker/DatePicker widget;

Change TimePickerDialog with;

    final TimePicker timePicker = new TimePicker(this);
    timePicker.setIs24HourView(true);
    timePicker.setCurrentHour(20);
    timePicker.setCurrentMinute(15);

    new AlertDialog.Builder(this)
            .setTitle("Test")
            .setPositiveButton(android.R.string.ok, new OnClickListener() {

                @Override
                public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                    Log.d("Picker", timePicker.getCurrentHour() + ":"
                            + timePicker.getCurrentMinute());
                }
            })
            .setNegativeButton(android.R.string.cancel,
                    new OnClickListener() {

                        @Override
                        public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog,
                                int which) {
                            Log.d("Picker", "Cancelled!");
                        }
                    }).setView(timePicker).show();

Change DatePickerDialog with;

    final DatePicker datePicker = new DatePicker(this);
    datePicker.init(2012, 10, 5, null);
    if (Build.VERSION.SDK_INT >= Build.VERSION_CODES.HONEYCOMB) {
        datePicker.setCalendarViewShown(false);
    }

    new AlertDialog.Builder(this)
            .setTitle("Test")
            .setPositiveButton(android.R.string.ok, new OnClickListener() {

                @Override
                public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                    Log.d("Picker", datePicker.getYear() + " "
                            + (datePicker.getMonth() + 1) + " "
                            + datePicker.getDayOfMonth());
                }
            })
            .setNegativeButton(android.R.string.cancel,
                    new OnClickListener() {

                        @Override
                        public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog,
                                int which) {
                            Log.d("Picker", "Cancelled!");
                        }
                    }).setView(datePicker).show();

Note: Fixed as of Lollipop, source here. Automated class for use in clients (compatible with all Android versions) updated as well.

TL;DR: 1-2-3 dead easy steps for a global solution:

1. Download this class.
2. Implement OnDateSetListener in your activity (or change the class to suit your needs).

3. Trigger the dialog with this code (in this sample, I use it inside a Fragment):

   Bundle b = new Bundle();
   b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.YEAR, 2012);
   b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.MONTH, 6);
   b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.DATE, 17);
   DialogFragment picker = new DatePickerDialogFragment();
   picker.setArguments(b);
   picker.show(getActivity().getSupportFragmentManager(), "frag_date_picker");
   

And that's all it takes! The reason I still keep my answer as "accepted" is because I still prefer my solution since it has a very small footprint in client code, it addresses the fundamental issue (the listener being called in the framework class), works fine across config changes and it routes the code logic to the default implementation in previous Android versions not plagued by this bug (see class source).

Original answer (kept for historical and didactic reasons):

Bug source

OK, looks like it's indeed a bug and someone else already filled it. Issue 34833.

I've found that the problem is possibly in DatePickerDialog.java. Where it reads:

private void tryNotifyDateSet() {
    if (mCallBack != null) {
        mDatePicker.clearFocus();
        mCallBack.onDateSet(mDatePicker, mDatePicker.getYear(),
                mDatePicker.getMonth(), mDatePicker.getDayOfMonth());
    }
}

@Override
protected void onStop() {
    tryNotifyDateSet();
    super.onStop();
}

I'd guess it could have been:

@Override
protected void onStop() {
    // instead of the full tryNotifyDateSet() call:
    if (mCallBack != null) mDatePicker.clearFocus();
    super.onStop();
}

Now if someone can tell me how I can propose a patch/bug report to Android, I'd be glad to. Meanwhile, I suggested a possible fix (simple) as an attached version of DatePickerDialog.java in the Issue there.

Concept to avoid the bug

Set the listener to null in the constructor and create your own BUTTON_POSITIVE button later on. That's it, details below.

The problem happens because DatePickerDialog.java, as you can see in the source, calls a global variable (mCallBack) that stores the listener that was passed in the constructor:

    /**
 * @param context The context the dialog is to run in.
 * @param callBack How the parent is notified that the date is set.
 * @param year The initial year of the dialog.
 * @param monthOfYear The initial month of the dialog.
 * @param dayOfMonth The initial day of the dialog.
 */
public DatePickerDialog(Context context,
        OnDateSetListener callBack,
        int year,
        int monthOfYear,
        int dayOfMonth) {
    this(context, 0, callBack, year, monthOfYear, dayOfMonth);
}

    /**
 * @param context The context the dialog is to run in.
 * @param theme the theme to apply to this dialog
 * @param callBack How the parent is notified that the date is set.
 * @param year The initial year of the dialog.
 * @param monthOfYear The initial month of the dialog.
 * @param dayOfMonth The initial day of the dialog.
 */
public DatePickerDialog(Context context,
        int theme,
        OnDateSetListener callBack,
        int year,
        int monthOfYear,
        int dayOfMonth) {
    super(context, theme);

    mCallBack = callBack;
    // ... rest of the constructor.
}

So, the trick is to provide a null listener to be stored as the listener, and then roll your own set of buttons (below is the original code from #1, updated):

    DatePickerDialog picker = new DatePickerDialog(
        this,
        null, // instead of a listener
        2012, 6, 15);
    picker.setCancelable(true);
    picker.setCanceledOnTouchOutside(true);
    picker.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_POSITIVE, "OK",
        new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
            @Override
            public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                Log.d("Picker", "Correct behavior!");
            }
        });
    picker.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_NEGATIVE, "Cancel", 
        new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
            @Override
            public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                Log.d("Picker", "Cancel!");
            }
        });
picker.show();

Now it will work because of the possible correction that I posted above.

And since DatePickerDialog.java checks for a null whenever it reads mCallback (since the days of API 3/1.5 it seems --- can't check Honeycomb of course), it won't trigger the exception. Considering Lollipop fixed the issue, I'm not going to look into it: just use the default implementation (covered in the class I provided).

At first I was afraid of not calling the clearFocus(), but I've tested here and the Log lines were clean. So that line I proposed may not even be necessary after all, but I don't know.

Compatibility with previous API levels (edited)

As I pointed in the comment below, that was a concept, and you can download the class I'm using from my Google Drive account. The way I used, the default system implementation is used on versions not affected by the bug.

I took a few assumptions (button names etc.) that are suitable for my needs because I wanted to reduce boilerplate code in client classes to a minimum. Full usage example:

class YourActivity extends SherlockFragmentActivity implements OnDateSetListener

// ...

Bundle b = new Bundle();
b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.YEAR, 2012);
b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.MONTH, 6);
b.putInt(DatePickerDialogFragment.DATE, 17);
DialogFragment picker = new DatePickerDialogFragment();
picker.setArguments(b);
picker.show(getActivity().getSupportFragmentManager(), "fragment_date_picker");

The one for TimePicker based on the solution by David Cesarino , "TL;DR: 1-2-3 dead easy steps for a global solution"

TimePickerDialog does not provide the functionality like DatePickerDialog.getDatePicker. So, OnTimeSetListener listener has to be provided. Just to keep the similarity with DatePicker workaround solution, I have maintained the old mListener concept. You can change it if you need to.

Calling and Listener is same as original solution. Just include

import android.app.TimePickerDialog;
import android.app.TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener;

extend parent class,

... implements OnDateSetListener, OnTimeSetListener

Implement

 @Override
 public void onTimeSet(TimePicker view, int hourOfDay, int minute) {
 ...
 }

example calling

    Calendar cal = Calendar.getInstance();
    int hour = cal.get(Calendar.HOUR_OF_DAY);
    int minute = cal.get(Calendar.MINUTE);


    Bundle b = new Bundle();
    b.putInt(TimePickerDialogFragment.HOUR, hour);
    b.putInt(TimePickerDialogFragment.MINUTE, minute);

    DialogFragment picker = new TimePickerDialogFragment();
    picker.setArguments(b);
    picker.show(getSupportFragmentManager(), "frag_time_picker");

(Updated to handle cancel)

public class TimePickerDialogFragment extends DialogFragment {

    public static final String HOUR = "Hour";
    public static final String MINUTE = "Minute";

    private boolean isCancelled = false; //Added to handle cancel
    private TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener mListener;

    //Added to handle parent listener
    private TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener mTimeSetListener = new TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener() {
        public void onTimeSet(TimePicker view, int hourOfDay, int minute) {
            if (!isCancelled)
            {
                mListener.onTimeSet(view,hourOfDay,minute);
            }
        }
    };
    //
    @Override
    public void onAttach(Activity activity) {
        super.onAttach(activity);
        this.mListener = (TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener) activity;
    }

    @Override
    public void onDetach() {
        this.mListener = null;
        super.onDetach();
    }

    @TargetApi(11)
    @Override
    public Dialog onCreateDialog(Bundle savedInstanceState) {
        Bundle b = getArguments();
        int h = b.getInt(HOUR);
        int m = b.getInt(MINUTE);

        final TimePickerDialog picker = new TimePickerDialog(getActivity(), getConstructorListener(), h, m,DateFormat.is24HourFormat(getActivity()));

        //final TimePicker timePicker = new TimePicker(getBaseContext());
        if (hasJellyBeanAndAbove()) {
            picker.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_POSITIVE,
                    getActivity().getString(android.R.string.ok),
                    new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
                        @Override
                        public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                            isCancelled = false; //Cancel flag, used in mTimeSetListener
                        }
                    });
            picker.setButton(DialogInterface.BUTTON_NEGATIVE,
                    getActivity().getString(android.R.string.cancel),
                    new DialogInterface.OnClickListener() {
                        @Override
                        public void onClick(DialogInterface dialog, int which) {
                            isCancelled = true; //Cancel flag, used in mTimeSetListener
                        }
                    });
        }
        return picker;
    }
    private boolean hasJellyBeanAndAbove() {
        return Build.VERSION.SDK_INT >= Build.VERSION_CODES.JELLY_BEAN;
    }

    private TimePickerDialog.OnTimeSetListener getConstructorListener() {
        return hasJellyBeanAndAbove() ? mTimeSetListener : mListener; //instead of null, mTimeSetListener is returned.
    }
}