Limit definition of curvature and torsion
Example given is for curvature in the osculation plane rotation $\theta$ :
Arc $ s = 2 R \theta $ in $ \mathbb R^2$
Direct Euclidean distance $ d = 2 R \sin \theta$
Series approximation for third order
$$ s/R = 2 \theta;\, d/R= 2 \sin \theta \approx 2(\theta - \theta^3/3!)= 2(s/2R- (s/R)^3/8\cdot3!) $$
$$ d \approx s - s^3/(24 R^2 )$$
$$ \frac1R = \kappa \approx \sqrt \frac{ 24 (s-d)}{s^3}$$
the same as your result. You see that we dealt with infinitesmal lengths ( that later on tend to zero) as small finite lengths that can be sketched to visible proportions. [Incidentally I read somewhere it was similarly handled by Leibnitz during earliest stages of calculus].
We used $ t' = \kappa\, n $ in Frenet-Serret frame
Similarly we can now develop
$$ b'= \tau \,n $$
in the plane of normals (principal and bi- normal)
Let the instantaneous radius of torsion be $\rho$, we have torsion
$$ \tau = \frac{d \theta }{ds} = \frac{\sin \psi }{\rho} $$
Length $ dl $ extends by twisting to $ ds$ in normal plane so that $ \cos \psi = dl/ds$
$$ \sin \psi \approx 1 - ( dl /ds)^2/ 2 ;\,\, \tau = \frac{1 - ( dl /ds)^2/ 2 }{\rho} $$
You can write/define using your nomenclature
$$ ds = s(P,Q), dl = d(P,Q). $$