Memory fences: acquire/load and release/store
Say I write some data, and then I write an indication that the data is now ready. It's imperative that no other thread who sees the indication that the data is ready not see the write of the data itself. So prior writes cannot move past that write.
Say I read that some data is ready. It's imperative that any reads I issue after seeing that take place after the read that saw that the data was ready. So subsequent reads cannot move behind that read.
So when you do a synchronized write, you typically need to make sure that all writes you did before that are visible to anyone who sees the synchronized write. And when you do a synchronized read, it's typically imperative that any reads you do after that take place after the synchronized read.
Or, to put it another way, an acquire is typically reading that you can take or access the resource, and subsequent reads and writes must not be moved before it. A release is typically writing that you are done with the resource, and preceding writes must not be moved to after it.