Pet Peeve (notation for limits assumes uniqueness...)
When I teach limits in advanced calculus, the first step is teaching the definition of convergence of a sequence:
Definition: Given a sequence of real numbers $(x_n)$ and a real number $L$, the sequence $(x_n)$ converges to $L$ if [... we all know what goes here ...]
After a few simple examples, I immediately prove:
Theorem: Given a sequence of real numbers $(x_n)$ and real numbers $L,M$, if the sequence $(x_n)$ converges to $L$ and the sequence $(x_n)$ converges to $M$ then $L=M$.
and then I define
Definition: $\lim_{n \to \infty} x_n$ is equal to the unique number to which $(x_n)$ converges.
where the previous theorem is used to justify uniqueness, and therefore well-definedness.
I see that my textbook does indeed follow this same line of development: Advanced Calculus, by Patrick M. Fitzpatrick.