laravel how to get only the first elemt of the relational table while making query model ::with code example

Example 1: laravel where has

use Illuminate\Database\Eloquent\Builder;

// Retrieve posts with at least one comment containing words like foo%...
$posts = App\Post::whereHas('comments', function (Builder $query) {
    $query->where('content', 'like', 'foo%');
})->get();

// Retrieve posts with at least ten comments containing words like foo%...
$posts = App\Post::whereHas('comments', function (Builder $query) {
    $query->where('content', 'like', 'foo%');
}, '>=', 10)->get();

Example 2: laravel eloquent associate

$account = App\Account::find(10);

$user->account()->associate($account);

$user->save();