Apple - Prevent macOS Messages.app from quitting when I close its window?
As far as I can see that's just another case of "Automatic Termination", similar to Preview, QuickTime Player, etc.
If you launch Terminal (from /Applications/Utilities/) and run the following command with Messages quit, Messages should stop terminating, when the window is closed:
defaults write com.apple.iChat NSDisableAutomaticTermination -bool yes
Then press enter.
To undo it again:
defaults delete com.apple.iChat NSDisableAutomaticTermination