Proving a polynomial divides other polynomials
When $p=2,$ the claim is trivial, so assume $p$ is an odd prime. In the finite field $\mathbb F_{p^2}=\mathbb F_p[u]/(u^2-cu+d)$ (it is a field by the irreducibility of $u^2-cu+d$,) we want to show $u^p+u-c=0$ and $u^{p+1}-d=0.$
Assuming the first equation, we immediately have that $u^{p+1}-d=u^{p+1}+u^2-cu=u(u^p+u-c)=0,$ so all that is left to do is show $u^p+u-c=0.$
Now, in $\mathbb F_p[u]/(u^2-cu+d),$ we can express $u^p=au+b,$ for some $a,b\in\mathbb F_p.$ Then, taking both sides to the $p$-th power, we have $u^{p^2}=u=(au+b)^p=au^p+b=a(au+b)+b=a^2u+(a+1)b.$ Thus, $a^2=1$ and $(a+1)b=0.$
If $b=0,$ we would have $u^p=au,$ or $u^{p-1}=a.$ Then, $(u^{p-1})^p=u^{p^2-p}=u^{-p}=a,$ so $u=a^{-2},$ a contradiction.
Hence, we have that $b\neq 0,$ so since $(a+1)b=0,$ we have that $a=-1.$ Now, since $u^2-cu+d=0,$ $(u^2-cu+d)^p=cu^{2p}-cu^p+d=(2c-2b)u+(b^2-cb)=0,$ showing $b=c.$
Kenta's argument is fine. I want to add a dash of Galois theory to the mix for I think it shows why the argument works (and how it can be easily discovered).
It is given that the quadratic $f(u)=u^2-cu+d$ is irreducible over the prime field. Therefore its zeros are in the quadratic extension field $K=\Bbb{F}_{p^2}$. Assume that the zeros are $\alpha,\beta$, so we have the factorization $$ f(u)=(u-\alpha)(u-\beta). $$ By Vieta relations (or simply expanding the right hand side) we arrive at the equations $$ \begin{aligned} c&=\alpha+\beta,\ \text{and}\\ d&=\alpha\beta. \end{aligned} $$ By basic Galois theory the untrivial automorphism of $K$ is the Frobenius automorphism $F(x)=x^p$. Irreducibility of $f$ means that its zeros are Galois conjugates of each other, so $F(\alpha)=\beta$ and $F(\beta)=\alpha$ (neither can be a fixed point of $F$ for those are the elements of the prime field). So $\alpha^p=\beta$, $\beta^p=\alpha$, and the equations above become $$ \begin{aligned} c&=\alpha+\alpha^p,\ \text{and}\\ d&=\alpha^{p+1} \end{aligned} $$ and the same equations with $\alpha$ replaced by $\beta$.
But these last equations imply that $\alpha$ and $\beta$ are (distinct) zeros of both $u^p+u-c$ and $u^{p+1}-d$. This implies that $f(u)=(u-\alpha)(u-\beta)$ is a factor of both these polynomials.
So, in a sense, a one-step argument if you are familiar with the somewhat simple Galois theory of $K$.