Reflexive, symmetric, transitive, and antisymmetric
For any set $A$, there exists only one relation which is both reflexive, symmetric and assymetric, and that is the relation $R=\{(a,a)| a\in A\}$.
You can easily see that any reflexive relation must include all elements of $R$, and that any relation that is symmetric and antisymmetric cannot include any pair $(a,b)$ where $a\neq b$. So already, $R$ is your only candidate for a reflexive, symmetric, transitive and antisymmetric relation.
Since $R$ is also transitive, we conclude that $R$ is the only reflexive, symmetric, transitive and antisymmetric relation.
Your answer is correct and you can easily generalize it to a set with more elements
Apparently the only solution to your question is the diagonal relation, $$R=\{(x,x)|x\in A \}$$ for any set A.