Relation between the binary Goldbach problem and binary version of Mobius sum
Many analytic number theory questions about the primes are really questions about estimating sums involving the von Mangoldt function $\Lambda$. For instance, the Goldbach conjecture (when viewed from the perspective of analytic number theory) is basically asking for a good estimate on the quantity $$ \sum_{a+b=x} \Lambda(a) \Lambda(b) \quad (1).$$ Now this quantity is similar, but not quite the same as, the quantity $$ \sum_{a+b=x} \mu(a) \mu(b) \quad (2)$$ mentioned in your post. There are a number of useful combinatorial identities relating $\Lambda$ to $\mu$, e.g. $$ \Lambda(n) = \sum_{n=dm} \mu(d) \log m.$$ If one inserts this identity directly into (1), one gets the expression $$ \sum_{m_1, m_2} \log m_1 \log m_2 \sum_{m_1 a + m_2 b = x} \mu(a) \mu(b).$$ Roughly speaking, this calculation (as well as similar calculations using more sophisticated combinatorial identities which are truncated in various analytically convenient ways) suggests that in order to estimate (1) well, it would suffice to estimate sums of the form $$ \sum_{m_1 a + m_2 b = x} \mu(a) \mu(b) \quad (3) $$ to reasonably good accuracy (in particular, one would probably want the error terms to be smaller than the main term by a couple factors of $\log x$, in order to absorb various losses coming from the other logarithmic terms appearing in the above expansion). The sum (2) is one such member of this family of sums (3), but it is not the only one. Just knowing a bound on (2) alone is unlikely to be directly useful for controlling (1), but it is likely to be indirectly useful by suggesting a way to control the related sums (3), which can then be used to control (1).
This can be compared with the case of the prime number theorem, which is basically about controlling the sum $$ \sum_{n \leq x} \Lambda(n).$$ Using the same sort of analysis as above, we come to the conclusion that to control the above sum, it would be desirable to control the sums $$ \sum_{mn \leq x} \mu(n) $$ for various $m$. But this sort of sum can be rewritten as $\sum_{n \leq x/m} \mu(n)$, and so there is a fairly direct link between the Möbius summatory function and the von Mangoldt summatory function, which makes the equivalence of the prime number theorem with the bound $\sum_{n \leq x} \mu(n) = o(x)$. There is still the issue of not losing logarithmic factors when going back and forth; there are some clever ad hoc tricks in the case of the prime number theorem, exploiting Möbius inversion, that end up not losing these log factors, but they unfortunately do not seem to generalise to other settings. For instance, I do not know how to derive Goldbach-type results (or twin prime type results) from Chowla type conjectures unless the error term is a couple log-factors better than the main term in the latter (see e.g. Section 3 of this blog post of mine for some discussion along these lines).