Share list between process in python server

The problem is that you're letting the main process finish its execution immediately after you start the worker process. When the process that created the multiprocessing.Manager finishes its execution, the Manager server gets shut down, which means your shared list object is now useless. This happens because the Manager object registers it's shutdown function as a "finalizer" with the multiprocessing module, which means it will be run just before the process exits. Here's the code that registers it, in BaseManager.__init__:

    # register a finalizer
    self._state.value = State.STARTED
    self.shutdown = util.Finalize(
        self, type(self)._finalize_manager,
        args=(self._process, self._address, self._authkey,
              self._state, self._Client),
        exitpriority=0
        )

Here's the code that actually does the shut down:

@staticmethod
def _finalize_manager(process, address, authkey, state, _Client):
    '''
    Shutdown the manager process; will be registered as a finalizer
    '''
    if process.is_alive():
        util.info('sending shutdown message to manager')
        try:
            conn = _Client(address, authkey=authkey)
            try:
                dispatch(conn, None, 'shutdown')
            finally:
                conn.close()
        except Exception:
            pass

        process.join(timeout=1.0)
        if process.is_alive():
            util.info('manager still alive')
            if hasattr(process, 'terminate'):
                util.info('trying to `terminate()` manager process')
                process.terminate()
                process.join(timeout=0.1)
                if process.is_alive():
                    util.info('manager still alive after terminate')

    state.value = State.SHUTDOWN
    try:
        del BaseProxy._address_to_local[address]
    except KeyError:
        pass

The fix is simple - don't let the main process complete immediately you start the process that runs the UDP server, by calling server_process.join():

import multiprocessing
from socketserver import UDPServer, ForkingMixIn, DatagramRequestHandler
from socket import socket, AF_INET, SOCK_DGRAM
from settings import host, port, number_of_connections

class ChatHandler(DatagramRequestHandler):

    def handle(self):
        cur_process = multiprocessing.current_process()
        data = self.request[0].strip()
        socket = self.request[1]
        ChatHandler.clients.append(self.client_address) # error here
        print(ChatHandler.clients)


class ChatServer(ForkingMixIn, UDPServer):
    pass


if __name__ == '__main__':
    server = ChatServer((host, port), ChatHandler)
    ChatHandler.clients = multiprocessing.Manager().list()
    server_process = multiprocessing.Process(target=server.serve_forever)
    server_process.daemon = False
    server_process.start()
    server_process.join() # This fixes the issue.