Showing that two definitions of $\limsup$ are equivalent
We first construct a sub-sequence in $S$ that has limit $\lim_{n\to\infty} \sup_{k>n} s_k$. We do this by observing that there's a $l(n)>n$ such that $\sup_{k>n}s_k \ge s_{l(n)} \ge \sup_{k>n}s_k-2^{-n}$, now $\lim_{n\to\infty}s_{l(n)} = \lim_n\sup_{k>n} s_k$.
Now as $l(n)>n$ we have $l(n)\to\infty$ so $l(n)$ has an increasing subsequence $t_n$ and by that we can construct the desired subsequence of $s_n$.
That is we have proved that
$$\sup S \ge \lim t_n = \lim_{n\to\infty}\sup_{k>n}s_k$$
To prove the opposite lets consider "synchronized" subsequence $u_n$ (that $u_n=s_n$ or $u_n=u_{n-1}$ - just repeating the elements in the subsequence to keep them in sync) - this kind of construct doesn't alter the definition if $S$. Now $\{u_k: k>n\}\subseteq \{s_k: k>n\}$ and therefore $\sup_{k>n}u_k \le sup_{k_n}s_k$.
This means that:
$$\lim_{n\to\infty} u_k \le \lim_{n\to\infty}\sup_{k>n}u_k \le \lim_{n\to\infty}\sup_{k>n}s_k$$
That is for all subsequences in $S$ the limit is less than or equal the $\liminf$ of definition (2) that is:
$$\sup S\le\lim_{n\to\infty}\sup_{k>n}s_k$$
Let $s_n \in R$ and $S \subset R \cup \{+\infty,-\infty\}$. Define $s_n^* = \sup\{s_k \mid k\ge n\}$, $s^* = \lim_{n\to\infty}s_n^*$, and $\{s_k\}_{k\ge n} = s_n,s_{n+1},\dots$. If $s_1^* = +\infty$, then there exists a subsequence of $\{s_n\}$ that diverges to $+\infty$, so $\sup S = s^* = +\infty$. $s_1^* = -\infty$ is not possible because $s_n \in R$. Suppose $s_1^* < +\infty$. $\sup S \le s_n^*$ $(n\ge1)$ because $S$ is the set of subsequential limits of $\{s_k\}_{k\ge n}$ $(n\ge1)$. Therefore, $\sup S \le s^*$. Let $k_0 = 1$. For each $\{s_k\}_{k\ge n}$, there exists $k_n \ge n$ such that $k_n \ge k_{n-1}$ and $|s_n^* - s_{k_n}| < 1/2^n$ by the definition of the supremum. Construct a sequence $\{t_n\}$ by removing repeating elements from $s_{k_1},s_{k_2},\dots$. Then, $\{t_n\}$ is a subsequence of $\{s_n\}$ that converges to $s^*$. Therefore, $s^* \in S$ and $s^* \le \sup S$. It completes the proof.