SQL - an error occurred during the pre-login handshake
Solution 1:
An answer propsed here: http://social.msdn.microsoft.com/Forums/en-US/vssetup/thread/2d11b6f9-3ada-4682-b643-c721a97af4ba
Sick of the problem? Dont know or care what winsock is or any of this low level crap means.
Go to a command prompt
do this
netsh Winsock reset
go on with your life and be happy.
Solution 2:
In my situation, I had a content filter/proxy called Covenant Eyes that was the likely cause.
I tried repairing the install of SQL server 2012 and it crashed the install and still did not fix the problem. As soon as I generated an uninstall code and uninstalled the filter, I could connect; I did not even have to reboot.
Check for proxies and content filters on the machine and disable them!
Solution 3:
In my particular setup, I was using storing session data in a custom database, I also had the data encrypted (Encrypt=True) via the connection string, removing this fixed the problem!
I suspect though that the data isn't being ssl encrypted as a result though, not much of an issue until we add more web servers though!