Apple - Trash missing from Dock
You shouldn't be able to delete the Trash folder from your Dock. To put it back, reset your Dock settings:
Open Terminal (/Applications/Utilities/Terminal.app)
Run the following command to delete the Dock preferences file:
rm ~/Library/Preferences/com.apple.dock.plist
Log out and back in.
I think you should first use killall Dock
using Terminal.
This will reset your dock. If this doesn't work then you should download a 3rd party application such as DragThing.
Then logout and log back in, and start using DragThing.
If you need more help you can go on these websites : http://mac.bigresource.com/OS-X-Leopard-System-and-Trash-icons-gone-from-dock--t9R58eDJO.html
https://discussions.apple.com/thread/1494553?tstart=0