What is a proper stack?
As requested, an answer on terminology My favorite reference on basics for DM stacks is Edidin's paper, which I find much easier to read than Laumon & Moret-Bailly (who of course deal with Artin stacks).
Short summary. Suppose $P$ is a property of morphisms $f:X\to Y$ in the category of schemes:
If $P$ is local on both $X$ and $Y$ (`local' in appropriate topology, e.g., etale for DM stacks), it makes sense for morphisms of stacks (pass to compatible presentation of both stacks).
If $P$ is local on $Y$ only, it is easy to define for representable morphisms $F:{\mathcal X}\to{\mathcal Y}$ by changing base to a presentation of ${\mathcal Y}$.
If $P$ is local on $Y$, but you want to make sense of it for all morphisms, you have to make a special definition --- there is no general approach that works for all properties. This is what happens with definitions of separated/proper morphism of stacks.
So proper morphism of stacks need not be representable.