What is the use of having destructor as private?

Such an object can never be created on the stack. Always on the heap. And deletion has to be done via a friend or a member. A product may use a single Object hierarchy and a custom memory-manager -- such scenarios may use a private dtor.

#include <iostream>
class a {
    ~a() {}
    friend void delete_a(a* p);
};


void delete_a(a* p)  {
    delete p;
}

int main()
{
    a *p = new a;
    delete_a(p);

    return 0;
}

Basically, any time you want some other class to be responsible for the life cycle of your class' objects, or you have reason to prevent the destruction of an object, you can make the destructor private.

For instance, if you're doing some sort of reference counting thing, you can have the object (or manager that has been "friend"ed) responsible for counting the number of references to itself and delete it when the number hits zero. A private dtor would prevent anybody else from deleting it when there were still references to it.

For another instance, what if you have an object that has a manager (or itself) that may destroy it or may decline to destroy it depending on other conditions in the program, such as a database connection being open or a file being written. You could have a "request_delete" method in the class or the manager that will check that condition and it will either delete or decline, and return a status telling you what it did. That's far more flexible that just calling "delete".