What's a "deleted neighborhood"? (other than very very confusing)
The first contains $x$ (as the distance is allowed to be $0$) while the second excludes $x$.
Also, the absolute value is NOT always positive. It is always non-negative. $0$ matters.
It is also called punctured. It's the neighborhood of a point minus the point itself. It's very useful as a tool to know whether a point is a limit point of a set. A point is a limit point of a set when any deleted neighborhood of such a point has a non-empty intersection with the set.