Why can't I style a DataGridTextColumn?

You can't style the DataGridTextColumn because DataGridTextColumn does not derive from FrameworkElement (or FrameworkContentElement). Only FrameworkElement, etc supports styling.

When you attempt to create a style in XAML for any type that is not a FrameworkElement or FrameworkContentElement you get that error message.

How do you solve this? As with any problem, where there is a will there is a way. In this case I think the easiest solution is to create an attached property for DataGrid to assign a DataGridColumn style:

<DataGrid ...>
  <local:MyDataGridHelper.TextColumnStyle>
    <Style TargetType="FrameworkElement">
      ... setters here ...
    </Style>
  </local:MyDataGridHelper.TextColumnStyle>
  ...

The implementation would be something along these lines:

public class MyDataGridHelper : DependencyObject
{
  // Use propa snipped to create attached TextColumnStyle with metadata:
  ... RegisterAttached("TextColumnStyle", typeof(Style), typeof(MyDataGridHelper), new PropertyMetadata
  {
    PropertyChangedCallback = (obj, e) =>
    {
      var grid = (DataGrid)obj;
      if(e.OldValue==null && e.NewValue!=null)
        grid.Columns.CollectionChanged += (obj2, e2) =>
        {
          UpdateColumnStyles(grid);
        }
    }
  }
  private void UpdateStyles(DataGrid grid)
  {
    var style = GetTextColumnStyle(grid);
    foreach(var column in grid.Columns.OfType<DataGridTextColumn>())
      foreach(var setter in style.Setters.OfType<Setter>())
        if(setter.Value is BindingBase)
          BindingOperations.SetBinding(column, setter.Property, setter.Value);
        else
          column.SetValue(setter.Property, setter.Value);
  }
}

The way this works is, any time the attached property is changed, a handler is added for the Columns.CollectionChanged event on the grid. When the CollectionChanged event fires, all columns are updated with the style that was set.

Note that the above code does not handle the situation where a style is removed and re-added gracefully: Two event handlers are registered. For a really robust solution you would want to fix this by adding another attached property containing the event handler so the event handler could be unregistered, but for your purpose I think this is unimportant.

Another caveat here is that the direct use of SetBinding and SetValue will cause the DependencyProperty to have a BaseValueSource of Local instead of DefaultStyle. This will probably make no difference in your case but I thought I should mention it.

The style tag has to go in the right place. Your datagrid may look something like this right now:

    <DataGrid>
        <DataGrid.Columns>
            <DataGridTextColumn />
        </DataGrid.Columns>
    </DataGrid>

You might initially try to add the style tag directly within the DataGridTextColumn element which will not work. You can however create elements for "DataGridTextColumn.ElementStyle" and or "DataGridTextColumn.EditingElementStyle" just within the "DataGridTextColumn" element. Each of those element tags can then have style tags within them:

    <DataGrid>
        <DataGrid.Columns>
            <DataGridTextColumn>
                <DataGridTextColumn.ElementStyle>
                    <Style TargetType="TextBlock">
                        <Setter Property="Background" Value="Green"></Setter>
                    </Style>
                </DataGridTextColumn.ElementStyle>
                <DataGridTextColumn.EditingElementStyle>
                    <Style TargetType="TextBox">
                        <Setter Property="Background" Value="Orange"></Setter>
                    </Style>
                </DataGridTextColumn.EditingElementStyle>
            </DataGridTextColumn>
        </DataGrid.Columns>
    </DataGrid>

One style will be applied to viewing and the other will be applied when the cell is in edit mode. Note that it changes from a TextBlock when viewing to a TextBox when editing (This got me at first!).