wobbling coin observation
You are correct in saying that the two forms of motion appear to stop simultaneously. It would be interesting to look at it with a high-speed camera to see if that is really true, and also to look at various surfaces to consider different friction conditions. With physics, it is essentially impossible to measure a zero, since there is always some measurement error, so determining the simultaneity of the two events is not trivial (in fact it is probably impossible in principle).
However, within your experiment it seems that way, and that in itself is enough to be interesting. The only reason the coin stops spinning at all is because there is some dissipation of the energy. This comes primarily from rolling friction, although towards the very end (which is the part you are looking at), air drag comes into play also. This means that you are looking at an area of messy physics.
However, this does not stop us looking at the physics roughly. Note that the kinetic energy before it stops is, by definition, very close to 0. This is because there is a very tiny amount of dissipation that is gradually bringing the system to a stop, so just before it stops, it has only a tiny amount of energy.
The two main forms of dissipation going on are (1) rolling friction, which is the edge of the coin rolling along a surface, and (2) air friction.
Rolling by its nature has a very low amount of dissipation, far less than sliding in general. So let us consider your two scenarios:
- The coin wobbles, with the C.O.M. moving up and down. In general, the issue with this is that the coin would need to roll around on a circle which has a smaller circumference than the coin (see diagram below). For the C.O.M. to remain stationary, the circumference of the coin could not roll on the (smaller) circle, basically because the coin is at an angle, so the horizontal distance from the C.O.M. is less than the radius of the coin. So to do this, it would need to slip rather than roll. Slip friction is significantly higher than rolling friction, so it is virtually impossible to imagine the roll-slip happening in a uniform way, which enables the C.O.M. to remain stationary. The energy it takes to move the C.O.M. sideways is essentially zero. There is some small amount associated with changing its direction. But in general it is going to be easier to move the C.O.M. that it is to slip while rolling.
- Wobbling stops, and the coin slides. This probably does happen on a tiny scale. There is some miniscule momentum in the system which cannot dissipate instantaneously. However, the friction associated with sliding a coin across the table is enormous compared with the air friction and rolling friction which have dissipated the coin's energy to get it to stop. In other words, by the time the coin is flat on the table, its kinetic energy is so tiny (since it can be stopped by tiny dissipative forces), that it is unable to slide very far.
My guess is that number 2 will be detectable in a laboratory setting though.
Edit: I took some 1000fps video of a coin wobbling. It is available here. As I mentioned earlier, it's probably a strong function of the kind of surface you're spinning on and the relative friction. But what is apparent (at least here) is that as the coin gets closer to the surface, the two radii in the diagram above approach each other, and so you might expect the C.O.M. to spiral in to a central point, but only hitting that central point when the coin is flat on the table. In this sense, there is a physical, geometrical reason for the two to converge together and stop simultaneously.