Are there real-life relations which are symmetric and reflexive but not transitive?
$\quad\quad x\;$ has slept with $\;y$ ${}{}{}{}{}$
$x$ lives within one mile of $y$.
This is reflexive and symmetric, but not transitive.
$x$ is indistinguishable from $y$.
The non-transitivity of this relation is my favorite way to account for the non-intuitiveness of the theory of evolution.